Gifts for Couples: Ideas to Enjoy Together
The best intimate gifts aren’t things. They’re evenings. Here are our favourite ideas to share as a couple, from the most tender to the boldest.
Not sure which fits you? Our couple quiz matches you with picks in a minute.
Tender: slow down together
- A massage set with warming oils and candles. Take turns, fifteen minutes each, timer on.
- A couples card game with questions you’ve never asked each other.
- Silk sheets or a silk blindfold for a night that starts slowly.
Playful: games and teasing
- Dare dice: one die for the action, one for the place.
- A blindfold and a feather: simple, cheap, surprisingly powerful.
- Our free games: Our Shared Desires and Truth or Dare, for one couple or two. Nothing is saved, and only your shared yeses show up.
Connected: play from anywhere
App-controlled toys let one partner set the pace from a phone, across the room, at a restaurant or across the country. Some come as synced pairs, so both partners feel what the other does.
Overview based on manufacturer info, not a hands-on test · partner links
Kiiroo for couples · Lovense for couples · Our full guide
Kiiroo for two
Luxus
For: Couples, together in bed; LuxHer also at a distance
Control: LuxHer responds to LuxHim’s magnet, its button or the FeelConnect app
- Pro: LuxHer’s vibrations build as you move together
- Pro: Quiet, hands-free vibrations (adhesive stickers included)
- Pro: Custom vibration patterns, saved in the app
- Con: The LuxHer harness is sold separately
Price: see kiiroo.com (it changes often)
Pearl3
For: Her · solo, couples, long distance
Control: Touch control, buttons or the FeelConnect app; a partner can take control from a distance
- Pro: Responds to touch: stimulation starts the moment it meets the body
- Pro: Fully waterproof, body-safe silicone
- Pro: Up to 3 hours on a charge
- Con: Connected play for two: with compatible Kiiroo toys
Price: see kiiroo.com (it changes often)
Two synced sets
Nora + Max 2
For: Couples, including long distance
Control: Lovense Remote app; sync: the faster Max 2 thrusts, the stronger Nora vibrates, and vice versa
- Pro: The two toys respond to each other, even at a distance
- Pro: Each one also works on its own
- Con: Max 2 weighs 750 g
- Con: Both IPX6: water-resistant, not waterproof
Set price: see lovense.com (it changes often, so we don’t list it here)
Lush 4 + Nora
For: Couples, including long distance
Control: Lovense Remote app; Nora controls Lush 4, turning its motion into vibration
- Pro: Lush 4 is wearable and discreet, even in public
- Pro: Nora: clitoral, G-spot or both
- Con: Only Lush 4 is waterproof (IPX7); Nora is IPX6
Set price: see lovense.com (it changes often, so we don’t list it here)
At Intimatify (ships from the US)
We-Vibe Sync 2
For: Couple · couples, during sex; at a distance with the app
Control: Included remote or the We-Vibe app, across a room or a continent
- Pro: Two adjustable points: pressure on the G-spot and clitoris
- Pro: Stays put as you change positions
- Pro: 10+ modes, whisper quiet, IPX7 waterproof
- Con: Up to 120 minutes per charge (90-minute charge)
Price: see intimatify.com (it changes often)
We-Vibe Chorus
For: Couples, during sex; at a distance too
Control: Squeeze remote, Touch-Sense or the We-Connect app
- Pro: Worn by both of you during sex; the shape adjusts to your body
- Pro: Squeeze the remote tighter for stronger vibration
- Pro: Waterproof toy
- Con: Up to 90 minutes per charge
Price: see intimatify.com (it changes often)
Bold: new rules for a night
- Lace masks for a themed night at home or at a club, like Julie’s in The Masked Night, an episode of our Julie & Marc series on swingersex.ca.
- A couples set designed to be worn by both partners at the same time.
- Bolder lingerie chosen together.
At Intimatify (ships from the US)
Arcwave × Womanizer Pleasure Pair
For: Couple: one toy each (Arcwave Ion + Womanizer Premium 2)
Control: Buttons on each toy; Autopilot on Premium 2
- Pro: Two Pleasure Air toys: one for him, one for her
- Pro: Smart Silence on both: on only in contact
- Pro: Both IPX7 waterproof
- Con: No app or remote control
Price: see intimatify.com (it changes often)
LELO TIANI DUO
For: Couple · couples, during sex
Control: Wireless remote that responds to hand movement
- Pro: Two motors, patterns designed for both partners
- Pro: Quiet: under 50 dB
- Pro: Remote batteries included
- Con: No app: remote only
- Con: Up to 2 hours per charge
Price: see intimatify.com (it changes often)
The biggest gift: a getaway
A few days at a couples-only resort, away from routine, kids and screens. It’s the gift couples remember for years.
Good to know
- Budget tight? See our gifts under $50.
- Discreet delivery: plain boxes, and Canadian orders ship from inside Canada. Learn more.
Adults 18+ only.
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Not sure? The quiz picks for you
Six questions for two, one minute, and a portrait of your couple: your style, what you crave, and ideas that fit you.
