In black lingerie, lying back with her phone
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Lush 4 vs Pearl3: A Secret Night Out or a Night In Together?

Two ways to play. With one, she goes out, he keeps the phone, and the evening becomes a secret. With the other, she stays in bed, and her own touch sets everything off, even when he’s far away.

Lovense Lush 4 and Kiiroo Pearl3 are both app-controlled, but they don’t tell the same story. Here is which one to pick, for the two of you.

Overview based on manufacturer info, not a hands-on test · partner links

See Lush 4 · See Pearl3

The short answer

  • To go out and play in public: Lush 4, a wearable egg, quiet, hands-free.
  • For nights in and play together in bed: Pearl3, a vibrator that responds to touch.
  • At a distance: both, each with its own app (Lovense Remote or FeelConnect).

Side by side

Lovense Lush 4 vs Kiiroo Pearl3, official product photos
At a glance: which model for whom
Model For Best for See
Lush 4 Her Discreet nights out See
Pearl3 Her Her, synced play See

Her side: the feeling

Lush 4 surprises: she never knows when the vibration comes, and that keeps her on edge all evening. Pearl3 responds to her: stimulation starts on contact and follows every movement and change of pressure. One plays on anticipation, the other on closeness.

His side: the control

With Lush 4 he holds the phone and sets the pace, up close or through a link at a distance. With Pearl3 he can take over through FeelConnect too, and if he has a Keon, their two toys can play together.

Both in detail

Lush 4

Lush 4

For: Her · solo, couples, long distance

Control: Lovense Remote app, nearby or at a distance (Control Link)

  • Pro: Wearable, hands-free
  • Pro: IPX7 waterproof
  • Pro: Up to 350 min of battery, 45-min charge
  • Con: Battery life varies with intensity (122 to 350 min)

Price: see lovense.com (it changes often)

Pearl3

Pearl3

For: Her · solo, couples, long distance

Control: Touch control, buttons or the FeelConnect app; a partner can take control from a distance

  • Pro: Responds to touch: stimulation starts the moment it meets the body
  • Pro: Fully waterproof, body-safe silicone
  • Pro: Up to 3 hours on a charge
  • Con: Connected play for two: with compatible Kiiroo toys

Price: see kiiroo.com (it changes often)

Our pick by situation

  • First toy for two, you like going out: Lush 4.
  • She wants a toy that answers her in bed: Pearl3.
  • He has a Keon or wants one: Pearl3, same FeelConnect world.
  • Bath and shower: both are listed as waterproof.

Try it tonight

Lush 4: a half-hour walk, he keeps the phone, three steps, one word to stop. Pearl3: dim lights, she starts on her own, then hands him control in the app for the finish.

See also: our full Lush 4 review, how to choose an app-controlled toy, let your partner take control. Not sure? Our 60-second couple quiz.

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